Warning Poem by Jenny Joseph

I love this poem as when my elder sister who is 87 made a comment which her family did not like she cried on the telephone and wished she could have retracted the statement, she helped my mother bring up a large family and always acted with decorum all her life, so I sent her a copy of this poem and told her to tell her family she was going to wear purple and buy a red hat and to expect much more to come! it really cheered her up

I find this poem a beautiful one due to the use of the language and a very frank description of both youth and old age from a 'crazy', nay, honest perspective.. But what struck me most is the speaker saying that she must maintain a certain façade of etiquette of social norms while being young, and would eventually break free from that when she will be old.. However, it almost feels as if she would do neither, being young or old she would be under the scrutinies of the society and will be continually judged. Perhaps the poem is more of a 'dream' than a reality as it feels, to me personally, that the speaker knows well in her heart that she might never be able to live her life in her own terms.. And most importantly, how can one be certain that they will live 'threescore years and ten' and not die before? ? Either ways, to me, this poem is almost a critique of the pressure of maintaining a certain 'face', so to say, in the society and a will to find freedom from bogus, stereotypical social norms.. A beautiful poem indeed...

A wonderful poem, seems to be an English equivalent of the well-known phrase in Hindi Budhi ghodi lal lagam which loosely translated into English means Old mare with red reins!

This I like. Reminds me of an old saying.... Life is too short to wait until you are old to wear purple

' Jenny Joseph's dislike of the poem has been overstated, but she did dislike the colour purple: "I can't stand it, " she explained. "That, of course, is why it's in the poem."

'"Warning" was voted Britain's best-loved postwar poem in a BBC poll in 1996 (and again in 2006) . It inspired people to wear purple, and a "Red Hat" society arose in America in homage.'

From the age of 62 she exclusively wore purple clothing during the day until 1992, when a family bereavement made her change colour to blue for a 3 month period of mourning.'

'Jenny Joseph was born on 7 May 1932 in South Hill, Carpenter Road, Edgbaston, Birmingham, to Florence (née Cotton) and Louis Joseph, an antiques dealer. The family were non-observant Jews.'

I love the sound, flow, and attitude of the poem. I think I should have married (or at least lived with Jenny) ! bri ;) ***** to my Favorites