My Mother's Twin Lovers Poem by Valerie Laws

My Mother's Twin Lovers



‘I must get back to the men, ' my mother announces,
Then slyly meets my eye, as I choose, this time,
To avoid my usual reply. ‘I know what you're thinking! '
She's triumphant. ‘That there's only one of them! But
You're wrong, you know! ' My mother is having an affair.
She's cheating on my father with another man, who lives
With them, looks like his twin, and even shares his name.
‘I think they must be cousins, ' she explains, defiantly.

Before going to bed with my father, she slips next door,
Turns back the spare bed quilt, and leaves her slippers there,
So the other man won't suspect. She has doubled her marriage,
Two-timed adultery. After blameless years of barely moderation,
Let alone excess in anything, she now has a surplus of husbands.
It's as if in creating my father's double, she's conjured up her own
Wicked twin, denied a life ‘til now, when time is running short.

She has gained an extra husband, while the one I had is gone,
Which is fine, but now my elderly mother, with dementia,
Has a more exciting sex life than I do, kicking up her heels
While mine have been dragging. Perhaps it's time, I think,
As I take her home to her lovers, for me to get back to the men.

POET'S NOTES ABOUT THE POEM
Even dementia has its funny moments. I was helping to care for my mother, who had Alzheimer's, and we often laughed about our differing views of the world. She had a persistent feeling that my father was two men: I was just getting back to the idea of dating after a very long marriage had suddenly come to an end. The twin themes of death/dementia and sex/dating are entwined in my book All That Lives, which this poem begins.
COMMENTS OF THE POEM
Bri Edwards 07 February 2022

I'm STILL lovin' this. ;) bri

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Bri Edwards 22 May 2017

but it looks like you are no longer on PH. good luck with THAT also. bri :)

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Bri Edwards 22 May 2017

four years later. i'm back and am borrowing this gem to be included in my/our June 2017's showcase, a (usually) monthly feature to be found in my PH poem list. let me know if you object to my using it. thanks. for the first time in two + years, i am featuring just poems by (supposedly) females. in July it will be the males' turn. i shall give your book a plug also. i hope dating and etc. has gone well. bri :)

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Bri Edwards 25 May 2013

valerie, it took reading your 'poet comment' and a second reading of the poem for me to completely appreciate what took place. thanks for the comment. and thanks for sharing. i'm glad you wrote: while the one I had is gone, Which is fine and i hope it IS fine. it always has been more than fine when i have ended a relationship....well at least the three ended marriages. it was past time i guess; at least that was the opinion of each wife. the book sounds interesting though i shall probably confine most of my reading to my weekly magazine 'the week' and to the murder mysteries i read aloud to my wife as she prepares supper. bri

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