What Is That Secret Ingrediant? Poem by JAMES T. ADAIR

(not really a poem...just some thoughts...)

Girls, Women are such beautiful creatures
it's so easy to love them
each has their unique way of looking at things
but something about all is the same

We guys miss that something special
and girls will think....I know what they're missing
but you'd likely be wrong
there is much more a man feels in a woman

He feels her softness, her beauty
the beauty that radiates from her heart
we love when the little girl shines through
the part we don't understand but miss so

We like the way you brush and flip your hair
and the beautiful look in your eyes
thousands of subtle nuances that you know little about
which we feel in our soul but can't put into words

We love the way your fingers come to a gentle taper
and the slope of your shoulders and your neck
we love the curves that fit ours perfectly
we love to watch your hips move when you walk

We miss the way you crinkle your nose
and the way you arch your back
and the taper of your arms and legs
the softness of your cheek and the touch of your hand

But even from afar, you girls bring beauty to the world
in your thoughts, in your kind words and gentle grace
Even the most hardened of you are soft inside
and it melts our male hearts to move us inside

It has little to do with age it seems
Its just something special that women have
a secret ingrediant, an aire of mystery
but all of you posess it, though you'll say you don't

When a girl reaches for your hand...there's nothing like that feeling
or when she snuggles next to you....we're suckers for that
I'm missing that feeling today, I miss that secret ingrediant that make the world nicer
but I see such beauty you even from afar

I think each woman or girl has the ability to make any man happy
just show him a little care, and understanding
be there for him and try not to doubt him or wish him to be something different
love him with your heart and your femininity will shine through..he'll love you.

Its not necessary to put on aires
to be the most stunning girl in the room
just be yourself...but strive to show your true heart...your innocent heart
men love a woman who is real and true...they love that more than anything


© James T. Adair