Wife Poem by Mary Wismer

Sun appears in the east
Has a new quest
In the middle at noon
And then set in the west.

Think of her as a flower.
All flower's are beautiful,
But each needs a specific
Amount of sunlight, nutrients,
And water to flourish.

When you are in the light,
everything will follow you...
But when you enter darkness,
even your shadow
will not follow you.

Learning how to love your wife
in a Mature way is like a raising
Productive Vegetable garden.
If you dumped half a bag of fertilizer
on your vegetable garden
and let it sit for three months,
and to be sure You'd have a lush garden.

But something went wrong none survived.
' burned' your vegetables with too much
fertilizer. Your intentions were good but your
knowledge was limited. A husband can fail in
much they same way if he does not know
Exactly how much of each 'love ingredient'
His wife needs.

For a marriage to flourish,
A Wife desperately needs to know
She has a very special place in her husband's heart.
Let her see your consistent and sincere efforts
to correct offensive actions or words.

A woman isn't impressed with a man who
seek forgiveness or admit he is wrong
and then continues to hurt her
year after year in the same areas.
Words are nice, but they are not enough.
Attitudes, are not words or actions,
often harm a woman the most.

When she sees her husband's
attitude changing, she is more willing
to hope again to be with him and
accept him into an intimate relationship.
Otherwise, she'll keep him closed off for
fear of being offended again.