I Wanted To Be Their Daughter Poem by bakuli bhakali

I Wanted To Be Their Daughter

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I wanted to be their daughter,
But she called me daughter-in-law.

People say-
How does it make any difference?
Daughter or daughter-in-law
It's the same.
I hoped so.
But it's not the same.
In fact, it's the shame!

If I someday won't cover my hair
In front of the elders of the house
It's the shame!
If I speak louder
It's the shame!
If I sleep longer
It's the shame!
If I laugh louder
It's the shame!
If I cry
It's the shame!
If I jump in joy
It's the shame!
If I pass my day out of the doors It's the shame!
If I can't bear children
It's the shame!
If I complain anything
It's the shame!
If I want to settle
somewhere for my career
It's the shame!
If I wear something other than
what they choose for me
It's the shame!
If I visit my parents
And call them frequently to know how
It's the shame!

I just wanted to be their daughter,
But they called me daughter-in-law.
I wanted to feel at home.
I wanted to laugh and live.
I wanted to cry and complain.
I wanted to care and cared.
I wanted to fight and forget.
As a daughter do.
As I did in the home I left.

I wanted to be their daughter
But they called me daughter-in-law.

Friday, May 29, 2015
Topic(s) of this poem: feminism
COMMENTS OF THE POEM
Abdulrazak Aralimatti 03 December 2015

Our parents are the only parents and no one can really take their place, this is the love and affection bestowed by God. Your approach is a good approach indeed. Loved reading and commenting. I invite you to read my poem In Search Of Integrity(on Poet's page)

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Allotey Abossey 21 June 2015

Certain things cannot be or be changed in reality: we were all born by two and only two. We may take other people as our parents and we their children bcos of certain ties but in the depth of reality, we are not and they are not. If I were you whenever they call me daughter in law I will only listen to the daughter and close my ears on the in law and stop the complaints. I also believe that in marriage the woman should deserve to have her freedom, it's actually between her and the husband and no one, not even her spiritual leaders should control certain aspects of her marital life. Stay blessed

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